Power

I think when I resume the power that I have externalized and realize that it is internal, then my irresponsible actions will reduce drastically. I will be able to take responsible action, knowing that I have full control on my actions.

This is as opposed to acting irresponsibly with the excuse that "I don't ahve control over it", "I'm helpless."

The truth is that we are not helpless. We have power, and it is all within us. We simply lose it due to certain incidents.

When we are controlled by another person, and we cannot protect our boundaries, we become hurt. This wound causes us to allow others to control us using that gap or wound in us, and we literally have a board hung around our necks, inviting dominating tribes to come rule over us.

The wound causes not only others to dominate us, but to recover from this loss of power, we in-turn search for others weaker than ourselves so that we can dominate them and recover this lost power.

Another side effect is that the wound loses much energy, and to compensate for the energy loss we use addictions that make us "feel good" so that we can forget the pain temporarily. This causes part of us to become "Out of control."

So allowing others to dominate us eventually leads to dominating others and being out of control in some areas.

Healing occurs when we internalize our power, reclaim it as our own, stop dominating, and stop allowing others to dominate. Then we are able to become "response" "able" and responsible.

This empowers us and helps us move to higher levels of truth.